Back in March 2015, I wrote about the trauma of Hubs and AGMA buying a new mattress in “My last __________ (fill in the blank)”
Hubs thought this was going to be our “last” mattress.
Not even close.
After 3 1/2 years, we went mattress shopping again.
Turns out the “high quality” POSM (piece o’ sh*t mattress) that the salesperson assured us would last for 20 years (hence Hub’s “last” comment) was…a piece of sh*t.
There’s a special place in Hell for dishonest mattress salespersons. Right next to dishonest used car salespersons. And dishonest Federal Appeals Court judges who like beer. And reality stars turned treasonous politicians who think Nazi’s and white supremacists are “good people”.
Did AGMA say that out loud?
After 3 1/2 years, we each had a huge divot in our respective sides of the mattress. It was so bad that, if either one of our cats tried to lie in the middle while we were in bed, they would roll into whatever black hole divot sucked them in.
We always found them, but AGMA couldn’t escape the nagging suspicion that they had journeyed to an alternate universe briefly though our mattress wormhole.
My side was approaching National Park status in terms of depth and width. Okay, realistically maybe only Georgia State Park designation.
AGMA Canyon Recreational Area.
The mattress death knell sounded when I went to an Orthopedist. After an X-ray of my spine, I found out that it could be used as the letter “C” on a Sesame Street episode.
Perhaps this is why AGMA has been having chronic hip & leg pain after every run since February?
My doc referred me to a spinal physical therapist. AGMA recently chronicled the subsequent encounters with dry needling in the rear from said physical therapist in “A day in the life…”
The first thing my great PT suggested was that AGMA change the way I sit in the evening when watching TV and working on my laptop. Instead of slouching on the couch which is sooooo very comfy, I was to sit in a straight backed chair with a bolster at my lower back. This would help put the natural curve back in my back and relieve a bit of the pressure on the spinal discs that have been smooshed by my wonky vertebrae.
But AGMA was a good patient and did as instructed, although I initially pined for my uber-comfy spot on the couch. Pined AND whined. But, happily now, 2 months later, I love sitting on my straight backed chair and NEVER sit on the couch anymore. It’s too uncomfortable.
This is good.
The second thing my saintly PT suggested was to get a new mattress.
This was not a tough sell to AGMA. I hated the POS mattress. But I was a bit worried how Hubs would take it. I mean, this was going to be his “last” mattress right?
Thankfully, he also recognized that our POSM was a POSM.
We talked about trying to get a prorated refund from the POS mattress salesperson, but ultimately decided that the return probably wouldn’t be worth the effort. AGMA felt confident that he wouldn’t give up without a fight. And he’d probably want us to buy another mattress from him.
Fool me once, shame on you. Fool me twice, shame on AGMA!
In 2015, I thought there was a seemly unlimited number of mattress choices.
In 2018, there really is an unlimited number of mattress choices.
Beside traditional mattresses that you can buy in department stores, or POS and non-POS mattress stores, there is now a plethora of foam mattresses! Memory foam, cooling foam, therapeutic pressure relief foam, countering support foam, firm foam, smooshy foam, and more!
You can order the foam ones on the internet. Your mattress is delivered to your door in a box. You “simply” unroll it, give it some time to “plump up” and put it on your bed.
But who wants to do all that work? Do you have any clue how heavy a foam king sized mattress is? And what are we supposed to do with our POSM?
And what firmness foam do you get? They are rated soft, medium-soft, medium, medium-firm, firm, extra firm. WTF?? And layers…how many layers of foam do you get?
They all come with a trial period so if you totally get the firmness level wrong or you just don’t like it, they send somebody to pick it up and you get a refund (sometimes minus delivery fees – gotcha!) Then what, since you’ve already gotten rid of your old POS mattress? And, if you order another one of a different firmness, how do you know you’re going to like that one?
Too many unanswerable questions for AGMA…
So we ended up buying the most expensive air mattress in the world…a Sleep Number bed! But it was on sale…
No worries about delivery – they deliver it (for $199 that is…) And they cart away your old POSM. And they have a 20 year guarantee (pro-rated after the first 2 years that is…)
And you get a 100 trial period. If you don’t like it, they will pick it up and give you a full refund (minus the $199 pick up fee that is…)
But what sold AGMA was the ability for Hubs and I to adjust the firmness to our individual preferences. Insane!
This might be TMI, but I’m a 40 and Hubs is a 45. Yeah – I said it…
And guess what?
AGMA’s back and hip have been feeling a whole hell of a lot better…
So between the dry needling and sitting differently and sleeping on a better, more supportive mattress and doing some exercises, AGMA just might be ready to run that marathon on Sunday.
So if you’re in Chicago on Sunday and want to catch a glimpse of AGMA in the flesh, come down and watch the marathon.
I’ll be the one in the white hat, blue shirt and running shoes.
Aging gracefully my ass!