I’ve been quiet lately. It’s not that I’ve run out of things to say. Oh my – I’ve barely gotten started… Lucky you.
I’m on vacation! Or coming back from vacation. At this very moment I’m flying at 32,000 feet (that’s 9754 meters to the rest of the world) going 476 mph (766 km/h). Zoom!
Not that being on vacation is such an unusual thing for me. I’ve been “on hiatus” since 2006. That’s what I told the young man beside me on the plane when he asked what I did for a living. On hiatus. We agreed it would be a killer name for a company if somebody hadn’t thought of it first. Just my luck.
To entice me to abandon my adopted adult hometown of 30 years and move to parts unthinkable, my husband dangled the “you can quit your job” carrot. Of the several jobs I’d had out of college, the longest running and the one I was in at the time was as an IT minion for an insurance company. ZZZZzzzzz…
All but the last two years of my minion life were spent working part-time. Great gig! Professional job, but still time to be a soccer mom and drive a minivan. Perfect! I pioneered working from home in the mid 80‘s. I really didn’t mind being a minion part-time. But after two years of full time miniondom after my youngest son had the nerve to go off to college, I was fed up. Forty hours a week is just uncivilized…
I bit the carrot.
Sweet was the thought of a non-corporate life. One glitch – it was hard to leave my co-workers and friends. Really hard. 21 years of shared day to day experiences. People who knew about my kid’s last track meet, my obsession with chocolate in any form, my last bad haircut. People I hugged through cancer and divorce. Laughed with at stupid boss stories at lunch. Cried with at miscarriage and death. Celebrated with at births, new love, re-marriages. You know – the stuff that makes up every hour of every day. Life.
I cried when I moved. My son always says, “Mom, you’re such a girl!”
But as the Reverend Mother told Maria, “When God closes a door, she opens a window.” Okay, maybe that’s not word for word… Not working eight to five was a revelation! Fancy gourmet cookware store work, famous chef assisting, monastic retreats, massage school graduation, hospice work, running, blogging, travel. Lots of travel. Like now…
‘Cuz I’m on hiatus. Lucky me!